WELCOME - Thanks For Visiting Our Blog!

Dear Friends,

We would like you to know how grateful we are to you, for your willingness to consider adoption, and for taking the time to read our blog. In this blog we have tried to include everything we could think of that you may want to know about us. But if we have missed something please don't hesitate to ask. You can also find out more about us by visiting our adoption profile, our facebook page, or our other blog about our adventures together. (Amanda also has another blog where she writes about things close to her heart - recent posts have been about our experience with infertility and adoption.) We would love to hear from you and to get to know you better. Feel free to email us at choosingadoption@gmail.com. We would be honored to meet you and to learn more about you and your hopes and dreams for your child.

Sincerely,
Ryan, Amanda, and Abby

Let's Get Down To The Nitty Gritty - Who Are Ryan, Amanda, and Abby?



Ryan
Age: 36
Height: 5' 10"
Weight: 160 lbs
Eyes: blue/green
Hair: brown
Occupation: Financial Analyst
Degree: Masters - Information Systems Management (BYU)
Claim to Fame: Won a Razor scooter at Fuddruckers




Amanda
Age: 34
Height: 5' 5.5"
Weight: 125 lbs
Eyes: blue/green
Hair: blond
Occupation: Stay-at-home Mom
Degree: Ph.D - Neuroscience (Baylor)
Claim to Fame: I know Jon Heder (aka Napoleon Dynamite). I was friends with him and his twin brother Dan my freshman year of college. I actually have a video the two of them made with a bunch of our friends - several of the things Jon did as Napoleon he also did in the video I have - pretty funny.



Abby
Age: 2
Height: around 2'6"
Weight: 30 something lbs 
Eyes: brown
Hair: brown
Occupation: Helping Mom (she would like to become the best big sister)
Degree: Hasn't gotten that far yet
Claim to Fame: Being the cutest little girl in the world - which has been verified by MANY people


At the San Diego Zoo
The day after we brought Abby home


Our beautiful baby girl!

Visiting the wildflowers
 

Hiking at Mammoth Caves National Park

She may not have a degree yet but she is super smart. Her spatial skills are out of this world. She started completing jig saw puzzles on her own just after her 2nd birthday. Here's one of them.

Some Things To Know About Ryan - By Ryan

In Prague, Czech Republic

My family moved around a lot when I was a kid due to my father’s employment.  My life began in Omaha, Nebraska followed by an in-state move to Lincoln.  Then we were off to Kansas City, Kansas.  After only 9 months in Kansas we headed down to Birmingham, Alabama for a couple of years.  Finally, we moved to the Dallas/Ft. Worth area in Texas when I was about 10 years old.  Once in Texas we stayed in Texas.  All in all I attended 5 different elementary schools.

Texas is now home to me although most of my extended family lives in Utah.  I have lots of memories of loading up in the family station wagon and driving across the country each summer to visit grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins.

When I was 19 years old I served a two year mission for my church – The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints – in Utah.  In many ways this experience and my faith in general have defined who I am.  I really liked Utah and decided to return there for school at BYU.  My final year at BYU is when Amanda and I started dating.  But that story is told in another section…

Fast forward to today and I am happily married to the best person in the world.  I also have a great job at BNSF Railway where I have worked for about 8 years now.


Some of my hobbies and interests include hiking, scuba diving, wildlife watching, sports, listening to audio books, running, games, gardening, and travel.


My first Father's Day as a dad

Hiking in Waimea Canyon, Kauai, Hawaii

On a dive boat in Lake Superior


In Denali National Park (in Alaska) - There's a dall sheep off to the right,
in case you didn't notice



At the BYU vs OU football game at the new Cowboys Stadium
BYU won - Go Cougs!


Reading books with Abby Girl


A little jog along the coast at La Push Beach in Washington


Playing a round of mini golf as we waited for our movies to start at the drive-in



Having a good time at Brazos Bend State Park - watching some alligators

Best buddies



All About Amanda - By Amanda

Hiking along the beautiful coast in Guadeloupe


So, here is my life in a nutshell: I was born and raised in Las Vegas - yes it is true, there are people actually from Las Vegas. (In fact, my mom was also born and raised there and my dad was born just a couple hours away and moved there a few years later.) I lived in the same house from the time I was one until I graduated from high school. For college I went to BYU where I majored in Biology Teaching and minored in English. After doing my student teaching I graduated and then a couple months later I started an 18 month mission for my church (The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints). After I returned from my mission I had a year before I could start graduate school so I decided to go back to BYU to take some classes that I hadn't had time for before that would be helpful for graduate school. Ryan and I started dating right away, got engaged 7 months later, and married 3 months after that. We moved to the Ft. Worth area the day after our honeymoon where he began working for BNSF Railway and I started graduate school at Baylor studying neuroscience (which is just a fancy way of saying I study the nervous system, which is mostly the brain - I study memory). After completing graduate school I did a three year post-doctorate fellowship studying memory at the University of Texas at Dallas. Following that I spent a year teaching in the Psychology Department and Texas Christian University (TCU). About a month before the end of the last semester at TCU we were able to adopt Abby. With that I made a radical career change and became a stay-at-home mom. I always wanted to be a mom, and I always wanted to stay home with my kids. I enjoyed both doing research and teaching but I wouldn't trade the opportunity I have to be with Abby to go to work. And that's it - the Cliff's Notes version of my life. I love my life! I have had a lot of fun, and am still having fun.

I would describe myself as faithful (both to family and friends and to my beliefs), kind - hmm, well, I guess I don't really like describing myself, better just to get to know me and then you can decide for yourself.

Let's move on to things I enjoy - a lot, it doesn't take much to keep me happy. I love dancing, both watching and doing (I was on a ballroom team in high school - loved it). Dancing is probably my favorite physical activity, but I also love swimming, hiking, scuba diving and snorkeling, kayaking (pretty much anything water related), and yoga and pilates. I love animals, the outdoors, going new places, kids (really people in general), reading, my bed, my pillows (they have been all around the world with me), math, science, creative writing, teaching, learning new things (I may be a little bit of a nerd), gardening, cooking new recipes, photography, blogging, camping, my family, my friends, and my faith. I LOVE spending time with Ryan and Abby.

I can't think of anything else of interest so if you have questions ask.



Taking Abby swimming for the first time

Kayaking in Santa Elena Canyon, Big Bend National Park, Texas


Holding a sled dog (puppy) in Denali National Park, Alaska

A quick picnic in Mammoth Caves National Park, Kentucky


Our nephew Jack likes to scrunch up his face and blow air through his nose, so sometimes I do it back at him


Playing around with some of my sisters on the trampoline one Thanksgiving


Some of my friends from growing up - I like to get together with them when I am in Las Vegas (most of them still live there, lucky)


Having fun on the swings up at the family cabin

Three generations

My first Mother's Day as a mom

Being Abby's mom is the best job ever!

What's So Great About Ryan - By Amanda



Ryan is amazing - I am continually impressed by him and grateful that I am so lucky to get to be with him forever. Ryan is the kind of person others are drawn to. He is super easy to get along with. You could say there are two types of people in this world - those who love Ryan, and those who don't know him. He is funny, but doesn't have to be the center of attention. He is super smart, but doesn't need to let everyone know it. He is a hard worker, but is happy to do so behind the scenes. He is considerate, honest, peaceful, humble, creative, energetic, motivated, and fun. Ryan is the kind of person that when you are with him you just feel good. He is fairly private but will also open up to those who are close to him. He has always been very supportive of me and helpful to me in my endeavors. He is a great friend and the best husband in the world, and he is a fantastic father. Anyone that sees Abby and Ryan together knows this. There is a very strong bond between them - they adore each other! Ryan's favorite thing to do when he comes home from work is play with Abby. I picked Ryan because he is the best, and am so lucky he picked me back.

Out to dinner to celebrate Ryan's job promotion
 
 
Sledding with our nephew Ben


In Timpanogos Cave, Utah - Abby's first cave
 
 
In Petit Jean State Park, Arkansas - We went on a quick trip after Thanksgiving with Amanda's parents


Sharing some sports love at Abby's first baseball game - Go Rangers!
 
 

Carrying our niece Lissa while hiking with our family around Lake Mead, Las Vegas
 
Having some beach fun in San Diego, California
 

Hiking in the mountains by the family cabin with our sister's dog Tillie

 
 Cracking up in the sweet pea maze - Carlsbad, California

Beautiful Abigail Marie



A lot of adoptive parents know about their children before they are born, especially now that open adoptions are so common. We did not know about Abby until she was 10 days old and she was not placed with us until she was 3 weeks old. The way Abby came into our lives is a miracle, and a very long story (we have documented in great detail how it all came about, from the moment we learned about her until the adoption was finalized, on our family blog in a series of posts called "Abby's Story" - there are 17 posts all together and you can get to the first one here) but a very brief version is that Abby's birth mother, Cheyenne, had picked an adoptive family for Abby and they were there when Abby was born. There were complications with her delivery and the couple backed out (they did not want the possibility of having a special needs child). Because of the complications Abby was rushed to a children's hospital where she stayed in the NICU for 3 weeks. Cheyenne's mom worked with Amanda and upon learning we were trying to adopt reached out to us. We met Abby a couple days later and the day she was released from the hospital we were able to bring her home - it was an amazing day, to say the least!

Abigail Marie is one fun, cute, adventurous little girl. She loves to read books, to play hide-and-seek and other games, to play with our dog Penny and us, to dance and sing, to swim, and to be outside. Not only is she just physically cute but she has a very cute personality. Abby has been very observant and interactive with people since she was a month old. She loves to learn and explore. She loves to laugh and make people laugh. She's going through a shy phase right now but she will warm up to people after a little bit and she is very social. She's very smart, a good eater, and a good sleeper. We think she is pretty much perfect (we may be a little biased, but we don't think so).

Abby will be a great big sister. She is already a great sharer - she loves sharing in fact. She will be a good example as she already picks up her toys (well, not always, but often). She is very gentle, at least as far as we can tell through her interactions with animals and other children. And she loves playing with other kids.




























































Abby and her awesome birth mom